What to Do Before You Choose Your Wedding Venue: A Comprehensive Guide
- Janet Lyons
- May 31, 2024
- 3 min read
Planning a wedding is an exciting journey, filled with anticipation and dreams of a perfect day. However, one of the most crucial decisions you'll make is choosing your wedding venue. At Serenity Event Planning, we are professional wedding and events planners serving New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, we understand the importance of this decision.
Here's a detailed guide to help you navigate this process effectively.

1. Determine Your Guest List
Before you start venue hunting, you need to have a rough estimate of your guest list. Knowing how many guests you plan to invite will help you choose a venue that can comfortably accommodate everyone. An intimate gathering requires a different setting than a grand celebration.
Why It Matters
Capacity: Ensure the venue can accommodate your guest count.
Comfort: Guests should have enough space to move around comfortably.
Budget: More guests typically mean higher costs, impacting your overall budget.
2. Define Your Priorities
It's essential to identify what matters most to you and your partner. Whether it's having a local wedding or a destination celebration, live music or a DJ, or even deciding whether to invite children, these priorities will guide your venue selection.
Key Considerations
Location: Local or destination wedding?
Entertainment: Live band or DJ?
Guests: Are children invited?
Speeches: Is there a particular person you want to give a speech?
3. Set a Budget
Knowing your budget is crucial before you start looking at venues. This will help you narrow down your options and prevent you from falling in love with a place that's out of your price range or can't cater for the amount of guests you would like to have on your especial day.
Budget Breakdown
Venue Costs: Rental fees, any extra charges.
Catering: Food and beverage costs per guest.
Decor: How much you're willing to spend on transforming the space.

4. Choose a Wedding Theme or Style
Decide on the theme or style of your wedding early on. Whether you envision a rustic barn wedding, an elegant ballroom affair, or a beachside celebration, your theme will influence your venue choice.
Popular Themes
Rustic: Barns, farms, and outdoor spaces.
Elegant: Ballrooms, hotels, and estates.
Beach: Coastal venues and beachfront properties.
5. Create a Wedding Planning Checklist
A detailed checklist will keep you organized and on track. Include every task, big and small, to ensure nothing is overlooked.
Checklist Items
Guest list finalization
Venue visits and bookings
Vendor selections and bookings
Dress and attire shopping
Invitation design and sending
6. Set an Estimate Date
Having an approximate date in mind can help you check the availability of wedding venues. Flexibility with dates can also give you more options and potentially better rates.
Date Considerations
Season: Peak wedding season vs. off-season.
Day of the week: Weekends are more popular but weekdays might be cheaper.
Holidays: Be aware of local and national holidays, especially if you are planning a destination wedding.

7. Make a Wedding List
Draft a list of potential venues that fit your criteria. This list will help you stay focused and organized as you begin visiting and evaluating different wedding locations.
What to Include
Venue name and contact information
Capacity and layout options
Pricing and availability
Key features and amenities
8. Choose Your Main Wedding Suppliers
Identify and book your primary wedding vendors early in the process. This includes your photographer, caterer, florist, and entertainment.
Supplier Checklist
Photographer/Videographer: Capture your special moments.
Caterer: Provide delicious meals and beverages.
Florist: Create stunning floral arrangements.
Entertainment: Ensure guests have a memorable time.
Choosing the perfect wedding venue is a critical step in your wedding planning journey. By determining your guest list, defining your priorities, setting a budget, choosing a theme, creating a checklist, setting a date, making a wedding list, and selecting your main suppliers, you'll be well-prepared to make an informed decision. As your dedicated wedding and events planner, I'm here to help you every step of the way to ensure your special day is everything you've dreamed of and more.
Contact us today to start planning your dream wedding in New Jersey, New York, or Pennsylvania.
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